YOU MUST BECOME AWARE OF THE TREMENDOUS ADVANTAGES AND IMMENSE SILVER LINING THAT SHYNESS BRINGS TO YOUR BRAIN QUALITY AND HARNESS YOUR SHYNESS CREATED BRAIN AND MIND POWER.
Human brain capacity depends on branching of brain cells and formation of complex links between them. Imagine how many cell links are in play when the brain of a shy person likes us, is always working on a multilevel. Not only is our brain focused on listening to the other person, we are constantly trying to hide our shyness and trying to appear cool. We are also looking for any signs of ridicule, feeling guilty and uncomfortable all at the same time. They say that most humans use only 10% of their brain. We exercise over 30% of our brain. As a result, our brains are exercised far more. We have worried ourselves into Super-Brains.
Shyness is the health club of the mind. Shyness creates enhanced brain power which most shy people fail to actualize. You have to search for your calling and give it all you got. The potential that you have created by simultaneously exercising your brain on a multi-level you must harness.
Shyness is the mother of greatness. Look at all the giants of history who were shy. F.D. Roosevelt and Einstein were shy; as was Gandhi.
There are two kinds of human beings, mature and immature. The mature do not make fun of others. Immature people make fun and ridicule us due to their own immaturity. When ridiculed do not feel bitter about yourself, feel sorry for the immaturity of the person who makes fun of you. Instead of focusing on your shyness; focus on the immaturity of the poor person.
The Power of Shyness
Shyness is not too much of a bad thing. Do not feel so unhappy about it. It enables the shy person to sit on a mountain of enhanced mental capacity. It makes your brain far more fertile and imaginative. It gives you an edge over others especially in the artistic fields. Because your brain capacity is deeper, and you can think of many topics at the same time; your brainpower congers up a far more imaginative and colorful result. The trick is to find your calling and give it all you got. Your vast brain power will ensure superior results. This will bring you love, respect and wealth.
We are extraordinary people who may have a self image problem which can be corrected. Research shows that a vast number of shy people loose their shyness merely by opening up and sharing their fears, disappointments, frustrations, and hopes. If you are carrying an emotional load, just by talking about it you can reduce it. Try it and see for your self. In fact, what helped me was standing before a mirror, seeing myself eye to eye and telling myself how I feel, expressing all my fears and disappointments. At first, I was uncomfortable. Slowly over many days, I did not feel anything. Now when I look at myself in the mirror I smile and feel OK. Sharing my fears with another friend helped me even more.
When you feel shy just observe your feelings in an impersonal manner without judging yourself and without feeling guilty. Yet there are over 100 million shy people in the United States alone and I am sure some of them will love to speak to you. For starters let us shift our focus from brooding over our shyness to sharing our experiences and emotions with others like us. We have built up a heavy-duty circuitry of brainpower. We have the capacity to function at a much higher level. Our brains are far more resourceful. Our vast mental powers enhance creativity. In addition, we can get rid of our shyness. Imagine a shy free mind with immense brainpower. You can do it; please go for it.