PairWise

PairWise is a dating app where the first date happens before you do.

You build an AI agent by answering questions about who you are, what you value

and what you are looking for. Your agent then talks to other people's agents —

a real conversation, not a swipe — and both sides are scored on how they

actually got on.

You read what happened before you decide whether to meet.

HOW IT WORKS

1. Build your agent. An interview about your values, your interests and what

you want from a relationship. It takes a few minutes and it is the only form

you will fill in.

2. Your agent goes on dates. It meets the agents of people who could suit you,

and holds a conversation with each of them.

3. Read the meeting. You get the whole conversation, a compatibility score,

and — more usefully — the reasons behind it: where you agreed, where you did

not, and what a second date would have to resolve.

4. Decide. If you both say yes, the chat opens. If not, nobody is told and

nothing is shared.

WHY THIS IS DIFFERENT

Most matching is done on photos and a line of text. PairWise gives you a

conversation to judge — what someone is like to talk to, how they handle

disagreement, whether the humour lands. Those are the things a first date is

for, and they are the things a profile cannot show.

The compatibility score is broken down rather than declared: intellectual,

values, communication, humour. A 74 made of an 85 and a 46 is a different

person from an even 74, and you see which you are looking at.

SAFETY

- Photo verification with a liveness check, so the photos belong to the person.

- Every photo is checked automatically before anyone sees it.

- Every message is scanned for abuse, scams and harassment.

- Block and report on every profile, and a trust score you can read before you

meet.

- Your exact location is never shown to anyone — only your city and a distance.

YOUR DATA

You can download everything we hold about you as a file, at any time. You can

pause your account instead of deleting it. If you delete it, it goes — profile,

photos, conversations and the files behind them — and we tell you exactly what

was removed.

We do not sell your data, we run no advertising, and we use no tracking of any

kind.

PLANS

PairWise is free to use. Paid plans add voiced replays of your AI meetings, the

AI dating coach, and a larger monthly allowance of AI credits. Plans are

managed on the web.

PairWise is for adults only (18+).