Consentify

The main objective of this application is to facilitate and promote informed and safe consent in sexual relations; raise awareness so that people understand the importance of consent and minimize the risk of sexual harassment complaints that were not such.

Stating what you want and what you don't want, respecting your partner's limits doesn't have to be something taboo, something that scares you or makes you feel uncomfortable. Consent and asking for consent means that everyone is clear about their wants and needs, and that each member of the relationship respects the other's boundary. Even talking about what you want in bed can make you and your partner feel more respected, and why not more excited.

So how can we have informed consent? It's simple. With consentify you can invite a person to have relations and both give consent to said relationship. The invited person may give their consent or reject said invitation.

If your partner says “yes,” you have their consent. If your partner says “no,” they are rejecting your invitation, they are not giving consent; or, if he says nothing; He is not accepting it either, then you do NOT have his consent; and NO is NO.

Never pressure your partner to do something they don't want to do or don't seem confident about. Let him know that it's okay if he wants to stop or do something different. And once you know that a person doesn't like something you've suggested, stop asking. Everyone deserves to have their boundaries respected. Being pressured to do things of a sexual nature is not okay and can completely ruin the relationship.